Many people who ultimately go on to build their families through third party reproduction have spent months or even years attempting conception at an IVF clinic. During that time, strong bonds and relationships often form with the doctors, nurses and support staff involved in their care. These professionals are there for you when the pregnancy test comes back negative, or a fledgling pregnancy ends.
Pursuing an egg donor or surrogacy cycle through your IVF clinic may feel like a natural next step. You may also start your journey, knowing you need third party reproduction, at an IVF clinic. You can find your ideal egg donor or surrogate on YouMeMine and connect with resources like clinics and reproductive attorneys. After all, it takes a village. It also takes money.
In this, the third part of YouMeMine’s series on financing egg donor and surrogacy journeys, we reached out to Lisa Aldana, Financial Counselor at Reproductive Partners Medical Group, Inc. to learn how people undergoing egg donation and/or surrogacy through their IVF clinic go about funding the journey. Here’s what she had to say.
YMM - What IVF clinic related costs are associated with egg donation and surrogacy for intended parents?
LA - On the medical side, it’s hard to give an exact estimate for the screenings and testing required for an egg donor and gestational carrier (surrogate). Some donors and surrogates have already gone through the process and will have at least some medical records that can be used. This is often a cost savings for the intended parents. The doctor will determine the necessary testing and screenings that are required to safely proceed. Patients also have the option to purchase frozen eggs from an egg bank. This is usually half the cost of a fresh donor cycle but can be limited on donor selection. Some ballpark figures are:
Egg Donor Cycle
Frozen Embryo Transfer
IVF Egg Donor Fresh Cycle
Surrogacy Cycle (does not include the costs required by a surrogacy agency or reproductive attorney)
YMM - How do intended parents fund their journey?
LA - Most patients pay by credit card. Some get financing. At my clinic, we work with Capex MD and Lending Club. If asked, most centers can provide a list of lenders they work with for financing options. Patients can also seek outside financing, such as through credit unions or personal loans. Some have support from family members. Another option is to use an equity line of credit or pension account, like a 401K.
YMM - What are the advantages and disadvantages of these different sources?
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YMM - How do intended parents find out about the costs they will incur and their financing options for paying?
LA - Once a patient has a consultation with the doctor and has an established treatment plan, I will go over the costs with the patients. Most fertility centers have a Financial Counselor available. I also provide information about the lenders we work with, so the patient can contact them directly. Agency fees are separate. Some of the agencies will provide financing options of their own that intended parents can use.
YMM - If you could ensure that intended parents knew anything about the cost or process of financing their fertility journey, what would you want them to know?
LA - I would advise that they speak with their IVF clinic’s financial counselor early on in the process, so they’re aware of the fees they will incur, prior to reaching out to the agency.
If the intended parent(s) need surrogacy, it’s best for them to ensure they have embryos, before they bring in a surrogate for testing and screening. I do advise they contact the agency for fees to see if this is something they can afford.
YMM - What helpful hints do you have for intended parents to help them budget for and fund their egg donation and/or surrogacy journey?
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YMM: What other questions should Intended parents ask an IVF clinic regarding financing/cost?
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YMM - What resources do IVF clinics offer to help intended parents plan for/budget their egg donation or surrogacy journey?
LA - We do provide a list of lenders we work with. We provide fees in advance so patients can plan for their journey. This can be a stressful process I always tell patients to take this process one step at a time.
Lisa Aldana is a Financial Counselor at Reproductive Partners Medical Group, Inc.